Fashion, burden of works, socialism, relationships, career choice, future tensions, adolescent...Who says that  teenagers doesn’t have any burden??  I know the life of a teenager. I would say that I had the successful teenage. From my experience I have some tips for you guys. I hope you like that.

And I will suggest parents to involve in the development of their child. Parent’s ignorance could lead to several consequences which no one want to have.

Here are some tips and suggestions for both, the child and the parents.  

©      For the teenagers-

·         Involve in family gatherings

Don’t ignore your family. They are the ones who will always be remain with you. None of family member will want you to go down in your life. I know some of you doesn’t feel it cool but believe me your friends are temporary; no one will be there except your family & your cousins with you in each step of your life. So don’t ever hurt them.  

·         Sit with your parents

Sit with your parents whenever they get time. Talk to them, gain knowledge from them, share your problems and tell them your future plans.

·         Set limits on the use of social networking

 I will not say that social networking is bad. Fb, whatsapp, snapchat are a good platform but please set limit for the usage. Don’t waste more than an hour of a day on these sites or you will regret in future.

·         Relationships

Did you know what the impacts of fake relationships are?? Go search about it!!

I am totally against of the teenage relationship. It takes two to three years for men who earn, to think about the marriage. You don’t even know about your future, and you creating relationship where no one is secure. Relationships need maturity which you don’t have. So please quit the idea of getting in a relationship just because you get attracted by someone’s look or money. Or to show your peer that you also belong to that society. Just focus on your future.

·         Do well in academics

No matter how boring it is now, education will help you be a productive member in society. Strive for excellence in school; try your best, listen to the teachers, do your homework, study, and get good grades. Doing so will help you get into a better college/university, which will enable you to get a great job in the future. School sets you up on the right track!

·         Be innocent

Your innocence makes you beautiful. According to a survey 70% girls love to marry a innocent guy over a guy who smoke, drink, and have no work, no responsibility.

Respect your elder, don’t waste your time, keep a smile on face, be responsible and don’t do stuff which you also don’t want your younger brother/sister to do (I hope you have understood that).

These are the key steps to have a successful teenage. And remember always have a smile on face. Don’t waste your precious life on messenger and snapchat, go out and show your talent to the world, because anyone can do wonders in their life. Follow your icon (any scientist, actor, president or any famous personality) to achieve your goal.

©      Parent’s role

·         Check what activities they are doing

Be aware! Tech them the lessons of spirituality and manners and to greet elders, check what their daily routine is, tell about the cyber-crime and immature relationships, tell them your life stories…and remember never ever check their chats!!

·         Give them the advice on the future planning and career option

And if you can’t do that, take them to a good counselor.

·         Be their friend

Be soft with them, don’t show your strictness. They need your love in teenage, strictness is meant for the child of age of 5 to 10.

·         Gift them what they want when they score good rank or got some achievement

This will inspire them to do well in future

·         Ask their problems and try to find out the solution.

Take out some time from your busy routine and talk to them. Talk to their friends and teachers too about their progress.

I hope I have helped you a li’ll bit. I too have gone through this situation and now my main motive is to inspire the teens and take out them from their problems. You can contact me whenever you want just mail me your problem without any hesitance.

My mail id- tarunsharmasp@gmail.com